Help life in hell whose fault is it?

Seven years ago start taking drug finasteride aka propecia for hair loss.


Forgot about side effects and had libido problems while on the drug without knowing why.


Last year move into flatshar to save money for a house - since this recession was supposed to be worst ever and buying was mad we were told.


Flat'mate' turns out to have aspergers - didn't mention this in the ad - and hardly talks, leaves lights out, puts his clothes in my wash, turns off the heating so I'm freezing...


Have panic attack at work mid last year, thought it was because of work harassment but instead was side effect of hormone drug propecia.


Then go back on drug and **** shrinks, finally figure out the cause then stop taking drug.


A week later aspie boy has slashed my leather jacket the horrible bastard cos I looked at him funny.


He couldn't get into nightclubs so was jealous. Plus he was a middle class **** while I come from poor stock.





No living room just a small cold room with crap tv so just stay in my room after work, no TV, and masturbate all night, reducing testosterone levels more.


Tried to move out of flat but landlord tells me I have to sign new lease and stay or else move out next day, going back on his word.





Three weeks after quitting propecia my dick and balls shrink and I'm impotent for life, lose muscle, good looks and job.


Will be on testosterone replacemnet therapy for life which might not even work.


Also should add my old flatmate before the aspie knew I was taking the pills and also Viagra - cos I didn't know why i had no libido- and told my friends behind my back I used viagra but not propecia.





Should I be mad at all these characters?





Is it my fault, theirs, a bit of both or what? Should I get revenge?Help life in hell whose fault is it?
Revenge against who? These are all your decisions. Am I missing something?Help life in hell whose fault is it?
are you asking this is every group on here? about 50 odd times u asked the same question, not found an answer yet then? must be that theres not many people on here answering!
If you freeze with the heat off you are not in hell.
Hate only hurts the hater.





Find God.





www.Masstimes.org for a Catholic Church near you.





Good Luck and God Bless.
All it takes for evil to prosper is for good men to do nothing.





There are no good men in your story.





Well... there wouldn't be if you took revenge.
Well you could try blaming someone else but any positive feelings you might get is purely coincidental. Your life sucks and that gives you the right to feel miserable, it is a normal and healthy response to a bad situation, however, the first step to improving your situation is to take responsibility for it.





It is probably best not to waste time analysing the past, unless you can put your finger on something you can change in the present. Simply accept the circumstances as they are now and develop a realistic dream of where you would like your life to be in the next few years and formulate a plan for how to get there.





Revenge is definitely counter productive, the reason most religions state that you should not take revenge is because it doesn't help you to move on, even if you do take revenge on someone you will still feel angry, in fact like throwing fuel on a fire, carrying out revenge will only make you even more angry and you will feel that the punishment you inflicted was insufficient to communicate the severity of the pain they caused you. Add to the mix the fear of reprisals and you have a very unhealthy situation. So I would certainly rule out trying to get revenge. Revenge for instance against your room mate might start off fairly innocuous like putting cling film over the toilet seat but I assure you it won't stop there, so don't start the journey.
Instead of getting revenge, pray the rosary daily for your enemies. It is God's preferred means of obtaining conversions. See the following promises.





The rosary is explained here:


http://www.medjugorje.org/rosary.htm





The fifteen promises of Mary to Christians who recite the rosary:


1. Whoever shall faithfully serve me by the recitation of the Rosary shall receive signal graces.


2. I promise my special protection and the greatest graces to all those who shall recite the Rosary.


3. The Rosary shall be a powerful armor against Hell, it will destroy vice, decrease sin, and defeat heresies.


4. It will cause virtue and good works to flourish; it will obtain for souls the abundant mercy of God; it will withdraw the hearts of men from the love of the world and its vanities and will lift them to the desire of eternal things. Oh, that souls would sanctify themselves by this means.


5. The soul which recommends itself to me by the recitation of the Rosary, shall not perish.


6. Whoever shall recite the Rosary devoutly, applying himself to the consideration of its sacred mysteries, shall never be conquered by misfortune. God will not chastise him in His justice, he shall not perish by an unprovided death; if he be just, he shall remain in the grace of God and become worthy of eternal life.


7. Whoever shall have a true devotion for the Rosary shall not die without the Sacraments of the Church.


8. Those who are faithful to recite the Rosary shall have during their life and at their death the light of God and the plenitude of His graces; at the moment of death, they shall participate in the merits of the saints in Paradise.


9. I shall deliver from Purgatory those who have been devoted to the Rosary.


10. The faithful children of the Rosary shall merit a high degree of glory in Heaven.


11. You shall obtain all you ask of me by the recitation of the Rosary.


12. All those who propagate the Holy Rosary shall be aided by me in their necessities.


13. I have obtained from my Divine Son that all the advocates of the Rosary shall have for intercessors the entire Celestial Court during their life and at the hour of death.


14. All who recite the Rosary are my sons, and brothers of my only Son, Jesus Christ.


15. Devotion to my Rosary is a great sign of predestination.





God bless!


Dave
ur fault if u weren't so vain u wouldn't have got propecia i went bald i just let it happen that's life and now u take more drugs to correct wot u consider to be a problem ....have fun