2012年1月29日星期日

Whose fault is my impotence?

Seven years ago start taking drug finasteride aka propecia for hair loss.


Forgot about side effects and had libido problems while on the drug without knowing why.


Last year move into flatshar to save money for a house - since this recession was supposed to be worst ever and buying was mad we were told.


Flat'mate' turns out to have aspergers - didn't mention this in the ad - and hardly talks, leaves lights out, puts his clothes in my wash, turns off the heating so I'm freezing...


Have panic attack at work mid last year, thought it was because of work harassment but instead was side effect of hormone drug propecia.


Then go back on drug and d!)Q shrinks, finally figure out the cause then stop taking drug.


A week later aspie boy has slashed my leather jacket the horrible bastard cos I looked at him funny.


He couldn't get into nightclubs so was jealous. Plus he was a middle class tw@t while I come from poor stock.





No living room just a small cold room with crap tv so just stay in my room after work, no TV, and masturb8 to internet porn all night, reducing testosterone levels more.


Tried to move out of flat but landlord tells me I have to sign new lease and stay or else move out next day, going back on his word.





Three weeks after quitting propecia my diq and ballz shrink and I'm impotent for life, lose muscle, good looks and job.


Will be on testosterone replacemnet therapy for life which might not even work.


Also should add my old flatmate before the aspie knew I was taking the pills and also Viagra - cos I didn't know why i had no libido- and told my friends behind my back I used viagra but not propecia.





Should I be mad at all these characters?





Is it my fault, theirs, a bit of both or what? Should I get revenge?





Where does blame lie:


1)me for buying drug


2)aspie for lying about the flat then trying and succeeding to make my life a misery and thus making susceptibilty to drug sides worse, rendering me imp0tent for life?


3)Landlord for not watching the flat, allowing it to be grotty and unclean,not vetting flatmates and crucially not letting me move out and being threatening in doing so


4)Previous flatmate who knew I took propecia and had sides but didn't warn me and told friends about viagra, plus left the flat leaving me to have to find a new one


5)Previous workmate who tried to make my life a misery but harassing me and making insinuations about my background, sexuality etc


6)the drug company Merck


7)the spivs who sold me it online without warningWhose fault is my impotence?
Ok stop trying to blame other people. This is to do with the drugs you chose to take. Buying drugs online without being fully aware of the side effects is just plain dumb. I feel for you, and i'm sorry that your naivety has resulted in a lifelong problem. Check the packaging that came with the drugs, does it tell you about the possible side effects? If not then you can probably sue.


You sound bitter about your old flatmate leaving the flat. People do tend to move on with their lives and for you to expect him to stick around just for you is selfish. Stress can contribute to impotence but by the sounds of it you're going through what most people do too - learning that some people are just utter arseholes. And the flatmate with Aspergers - maybe he would need a carer or maybe just to live with family so they can keep an eye on him. But he does have an illness so you have to understand that him being the way he was had nothing to do with being malicious or spiteful towards you.


By the sounds of it, your physical problem is definitely down to the drug but maybe you need to choose your friends more carefully, and try and be a bit more accepting towards people who have genuine illnesses.
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