Never have kids or have girlfriend again, whose fault?

Seven years ago start taking drug finasteride aka propecia for hair loss.


Forgot about side effects and had libido problems while on the drug without knowing why.


Last year move into flatshar to save money for a house - since this recession was supposed to be worst ever and buying was mad we were told.


Flat'mate' turns out to have aspergers - didn't mention this in the ad - and hardly talks, leaves lights out, puts his clothes in my wash, turns off the heating so I'm freezing...


Have panic attack at work mid last year, thought it was because of work harassment but instead was side effect of hormone drug propecia.


Then go back on drug and **** shrinks, finally figure out the cause then stop taking drug.


A week later aspie boy has slashed my leather jacket the horrible bastard cos I looked at him funny.


He couldn't get into nightclubs so was jealous. Plus he was a middle class **** while I come from poor stock.





No living room just a small cold room with crap tv so just stay in my room after work, no TV, and masturbate to internet porn all night, reducing testosterone levels more.


Tried to move out of flat but landlord tells me I have to sign new lease and stay or else move out next day, going back on his word.





Three weeks after quitting propecia my dick and balls shrink and I'm impotent for life, lose muscle, good looks and job.


Will be on testosterone replacemnet therapy for life which might not even work.


Also should add my old flatmate before the aspie knew I was taking the pills and also Viagra - cos I didn't know why i had no libido- and told my friends behind my back I used viagra but not propecia.





Should I be mad at all these characters?





Is it my fault, theirs, a bit of both or what? Should I get revenge?





Where does blame lie:


1)me for buying drug


2)aspie for lying about the flat then trying and succeeding to make my life a misery and thus making susceptibilty to drug sides worse, rendering me impotent for life?


3)Landlord for not watching the flat, allowing it to be grotty and unclean,not vetting flatmates and crucially not letting me move out and being threatening in doing so


4)Previous flatmate who knew I took propecia and had sides but didn't warn me and told friends about viagra, plus left the flat leaving me to have to find a new one


5)Previous workmate who tried to make my life a misery but harassing me and making insinuations about my background, sexuality etc


6)the drug company Merck


7)the spivs who sold me it online without warning





THANKS FOR READING PLEASE GIVE ME YOUR THOUGHTSNever have kids or have girlfriend again, whose fault?
1) Yes


2) Your ';aspie'; flat mate, as you call it, doesn't have to disclose that he has aspergers syndrome on his ad, no more than you had to disclose that your d i c k shrunk and your a disillusioned, depressed, dis functional dip s h i t. Life is what you make it, if you don't like your living situation, move! Don't blame the guy for being who he is. He can't help his aspergers, whereas you can help your narrow minded view of people like him!


3)Seems to me like you're looking for anyone to blame for your shitty life except yourself.


4)Sake, get a life


5)Well now, is that just kettle pot and black! Don't like people making insinuations about your background but you have no problem doing it to someone else


6) I might agree with the drug company IF they didn't say on the instructions that it could cause your side effects.


7) NEVER, EVER, by drugs online! There are reasons for this, which you have found out.





Think about it. What's more important, hair loss or no d i c k! But don't blame everyone else for this because as far as I'm concerned it's not anyone elses fault but your own. Take some responsibility.Never have kids or have girlfriend again, whose fault?
1) you buying the drug
life is like cake you get pieces and they are great but somtimes the cake is yucky and can turn out bad it all depends on what you put in to the cake when i was 14 i made a wonderful chacolate banana cake with nuts and i loved it so much but it was a little on the nasty side but hey thats life. your fine just belive i the church and you will feel better.
You should never, ever by drugs online. So I think that bit is your fault. It sounds like your landlord is crooked and you should give a months notice. You are under no obligation to sign another lease. I'd find a new place and move out anyways. Tell him to suck it and go elsewhere. Also, I think you are pretty messed up and you should see a doctor for your sexual dysfunction and be completely honest about the internet drugs you have taken. If you have any samples for analysis you should bring those with you. You should also see a shrink. No pun intended. Masturbating doesn't reduce testosterone levels. Being mad isn't going to accomplish anything.