My life with no sex ever again, muscle loss etc - revenge?

Seven years ago start taking drug finasteride aka propecia for hair loss.


Forgot about side effects and had libido problems while on the drug without knowing why.


Last year move into flatshar to save money for a house - since this recession was supposed to be worst ever and buying was mad we were told.


Flat'mate' turns out to have aspergers - didn't mention this in the ad - and hardly talks, leaves lights out, puts his clothes in my wash, turns off the heating so I'm freezing...


Have panic attack at work mid last year, thought it was because of work harassment but instead was side effect of hormone drug propecia.


Then go back on drug and **** shrinks, finally figure out the cause then stop taking drug.


A week later aspie boy has slashed my leather jacket the horrible bastard cos I looked at him funny.


He couldn't get into nightclubs so was jealous. Plus he was a middle class **** while I come from poor stock.





No living room just a small cold room with crap tv so just stay in my room after work, no TV, and masturbate all night, reducing testosterone levels more.


Tried to move out of flat but landlord tells me I have to sign new lease and stay or else move out next day, going back on his word.





Three weeks after quitting propecia my dick and balls shrink and I'm impotent for life, lose muscle, good looks and job.


Will be on testosterone replacemnet therapy for life which might not even work.


Also should add my old flatmate before the aspie knew I was taking the pills and also Viagra - cos I didn't know why i had no libido- and told my friends behind my back I used viagra but not propecia.





Should I be mad at all these characters?





Is it my fault, theirs, abit of both or what? Should I get revenge?My life with no sex ever again, muscle loss etc - revenge?
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It's partially you fault and definitely your roommates fault. But, nobody should fault you for having a health problem. Males don't like losing their hair, so I understand the propecia. I also understand the viagra, ED is common and living in your circumstances stress can cause the ED.





Don't be mad at anyone, it won't help. Don't get revenge. Move out as soon as possible. Your friends will ignore this in a couple of weeks, but you have got to be open about what was going on that caused this.





I'm bald and frequently think of trying propecia. I take a lot of morphine to control pain. Morphine eats testosterone. I started using the shots as I didn't like the gel, and the patch irritated me.
While your flatmate seems to have been a less-than-sterling character, I doubt that he is the source/cause of all of your problems.





Instead of trying to plot revenge, wouldn't it be much more productive to expend your energies trying to straighten out your life and get back on track?





While some of the blame no doubt can be attributed to others, you must take responsibility for your share of it.





Get over it. Get on with your life, and don't let a series of misfortunes and bad judgment wreck the rest of your life.
Life's a b*tch, then you die =/ I guess you should just let bygones be bygones. Revenge will get you nowhere.





Think of those worse off than you (Africa springs to mind) and you'll soon have a brighter outlook in life =)





An age old maxim which served me well: ';Things can only get better'; =P





Ross