2012年1月26日星期四

If you were me would you try and get revenge?

Seven years ago start taking drug finasteride aka propecia for hair loss.


Forgot about side effects and had libido problems while on the drug without knowing why.


Last year move into flatshar to save money for a house - since this recession was supposed to be worst ever and buying was mad we were told.


Flat'mate' turns out to have aspergers - didn't mention this in the ad - and hardly talks, leaves lights out, puts his clothes in my wash, turns off the heating so I'm freezing...


Have panic attack at work mid last year, thought it was because of work harassment but instead was side effect of hormone drug propecia.


Then go back on drug and d!)Q shrinks, finally figure out the cause then stop taking drug.


A week later aspie boy has slashed my leather jacket the horrible bastard cos I looked at him funny.


He couldn't get into nightclubs so was jealous. Plus he was a middle class tw@t while I come from poor stock.





No living room just a small cold room with crap tv so just stay in my room after work, no TV, and masturb8 to internet porn all night, reducing testosterone levels more.


Tried to move out of flat but landlord tells me I have to sign new lease and stay or else move out next day, going back on his word.





Three weeks after quitting propecia my diq and ballz shrink and I'm impotent for life, lose muscle, good looks and job.


Will be on testosterone replacemnet therapy for life which might not even work.


Also should add my old flatmate before the aspie knew I was taking the pills and also Viagra - cos I didn't know why i had no libido- and told my friends behind my back I used viagra but not propecia.





Should I be mad at all these characters?





Is it my fault, theirs, a bit of both or what? Should I get revenge?





Where does blame lie:


1)me for buying drug


2)aspie for lying about the flat then trying and succeeding to make my life a misery and thus making susceptibilty to drug sides worse, rendering me imp0tent for life?


3)Landlord for not watching the flat, allowing it to be grotty and unclean,not vetting flatmates and crucially not letting me move out and being threatening in doing so


4)Previous flatmate who knew I took propecia and had sides but didn't warn me and told friends about viagra, plus left the flat leaving me to have to find a new one


5)Previous workmate who tried to make my life a misery but harassing me and making insinuations about my background, sexuality etc


6)the drug company Merck


7)the spivs who sold me it online without warningIf you were me would you try and get revenge?
Sorry, Trojan- but I really don't understand what you're getting out of this. SEE ANOTHER DOCTOR! As I said, I will keep repeating my answer as before, until you see sense and do something more positive. There is no other answer out there, can't you see that? Or do you just want one constant Pity Party for the rest of your life?





(PS, thanks for the 'Best Answer' vote, but I'd rather you actually took my advice, or someone else's if you prefer.)





So, you didn't get a satisfactory response to any of the threads below? I told you, in the third-to-last one, that you needed to stop with this obsession and go and see the doctor. This is achieving nothing whatsoever, and you clearly need some help with your psychological issues. What you are doing here on this site is not so different to the cold, impersonal masturbation to internet porn which you describe above. Please break this cycle, listen to someone for once, and make an appointment with your doctor. You can heal, but not in this way.





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In Singles %26amp; Dating - Asked by trojan - 9 answers - 9 months ago - ResolvedIf you were me would you try and get revenge?
Yes, you should, and the BEST revenge is success and happiness :)
You asked this same question the other day...and by the looks of it you're getting the same response. I reckon you;re a troll...either that or mentally ill
OMG, that's a lot going on there!





You weren't to know about the drug, but for future reference is probably worth fully researching these things.





The aspergers guy is ill, it's a mental illness so although he's behaving out of order, you can't really hold it against him because it's not his fault. People like that you should just distance yourself from and make sure they get appropriate help.





You get **** landlords, I've had a few.





I would say the ';mates'; that let your personal life out in the world are not really worth knowing. Forget them.





Drug companies, in my opinion are suspect. Although the vast majority of us benefit hugely from what they do there are question marks over some of their ';safe'; drugs.





I'm really sorry for you mate, **** happens and unfortunately you've had a load of it. Although it's difficult you need to move on. If you focus in the past on bad things that have happened and been done to you, you'll end up twisted and bitter. That's speaking from experience in my family.





Good luck.
I don't know if you come from a different country but your english is a bit hard to understand.


Masturbating to porn all the time can reduce your sex drive making you less excited. Any drugs can also mess with your sex drive. Although your sex drive should come back. It might take a couple weeks or even months but your sex drive will come back.


You probably don't even need viagra and its all in your head.


Don't get revenge with anybody its nobodies fault but your own for not reading the labels stating the possible side effects.

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