Who do I blame for my disastrous life?

Seven years ago start taking drug finasteride aka propecia for hair loss.


Forgot about side effects and had libido problems while on the drug without knowing why.


Last year move into flatshar to save money for a house - since this recession was supposed to be worst ever and buying was mad we were told.


Flat'mate' turns out to have aspergers - didn't mention this in the ad - and hardly talks, leaves lights out, puts his clothes in my wash, turns off the heating so I'm freezing...


Have panic attack at work mid last year, thought it was because of work harassment but instead was side effect of hormone drug propecia.


Then go back on drug and d!)Q shrinks, finally figure out the cause then stop taking drug.


A week later aspie boy has slashed my leather jacket the horrible bastard cos I looked at him funny.


He couldn't get into nightclubs so was jealous. Plus he was a middle class tw@t while I come from poor stock.





No living room just a small cold room with crap tv so just stay in my room after work, no TV, and masturb8 to internet porn all night, reducing testosterone levels more.


Tried to move out of flat but landlord tells me I have to sign new lease and stay or else move out next day, going back on his word.





Three weeks after quitting propecia my diq and ballz shrink and I'm impotent for life, lose muscle, good looks and job.


Will be on testosterone replacemnet therapy for life which might not even work.


Also should add my old flatmate before the aspie knew I was taking the pills and also Viagra - cos I didn't know why i had no libido- and told my friends behind my back I used viagra but not propecia.





Should I be mad at all these characters?





Is it my fault, theirs, a bit of both or what? Should I get revenge?





Where does blame lie:


1)me for buying drug


2)aspie for lying about the flat then trying and succeeding to make my life a misery and thus making susceptibilty to drug sides worse, rendering me imp0tent for life?


3)Landlord for not watching the flat, allowing it to be grotty and unclean,not vetting flatmates and crucially not letting me move out and being threatening in doing so


4)Previous flatmate who knew I took propecia and had sides but didn't warn me and told friends about viagra use, plus left the flat leaving me to have to find a new one then made fun of my plight


5)Previous workmate who tried to make my life a misery but harassing me and making insinuations about my background, sexuality etc


6)the drug company Merck


7)the spivs who sold me it online without due warning


8)Reagan for ushering in an era of medical underfunding and corruption so that the FDA becomes a toothless corrupt body apt to pass approval of dangerous drugs for big pharma


So now I'll never have kids or a healthy life again - revenge?Who do I blame for my disastrous life?
Blame and revenge is never the best choice for problems in life. They only lead to more problems called consequences.


It does sound like you are in a hole right now my friend, and that sucks.


But there is always a solution if you only shift your mind from finding someone to blame to figuring out how to solve your problems. You need to sit down and ask yourself what it is that you can do right now and bring some positive changes into your life. If I were you, I would also seek a homoeopathic doctor to see what can be done to reverse the damage done with chemicals. Perhaps seek the advice of a lawyer if you can sue, most lawyers will give you a free consultation to see if you have a case. You do need to bring your life around and I believe, that with some effort you CAN do it...


Good luck.Who do I blame for my disastrous life?
i hate to say it, but it's your fault. every bad thing that happens to you is no one's but your own fault
I'm sorry about your misfortune. A bit of Murphy's Law in there somewhere. You've had helpful answers. Hope they help. However, why don't you start a blog? Would be great to know that you'll overcome this strife. There's candour %26amp; humour in your writing. Write a book, it could be cathartic and give you perspective.
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This particular medical problem and its consequences is new to me, but I have seen great improvements in people with a large variety of medical situations through tuning their immune systems by tuning their mind-hearts.


The tuning also works to accomplish goals that seem to be out of reach.


It does not replace professional help, it just makes the help work better.





Create Self-Directed Victory


How I dug myself out of frustration.


By Generalist


I kept crashing my life despite my best efforts. My opinions, and those of my friends, and authors, about how to live had failed me, so I began to review them.





The big question was, “How can I stop driving my life on the wrong side?”


At a SGI-USA meeting, I found out that the method to consistently drive on the correct side of happiness had been summarized as Nam Myoho Renge Kyo by the humanist Nichiren. He lived in 13th century Japan. Here is the, ';just add hot water'; version.


1-Everything is always changing. The time scales vary, but nothing is constant. That’s Kyo.


2-Causes produce effects. Sometimes this is not obvious because of time gaps between the cause and the appearance of effects. That’s Renge.


3-Life is both physical and non-physical. That’s Myoho.


4-I needed to organize my mind according to what’s real in order to win. That’s Nam.


I started to recite Nam Myoho Renge Kyo. It took some time to discard my cynicism, even when I got phenomenal results from it. Joining with others at SGI turned out to enhances the effectiveness and gets me a great support group.


Source(s):


My own experiences as a result of reciting the formula and working with friends for peace, culture and happiness


http://www.sgi.org
why don't you take evening primrose oil capsules for hormone balance it can't do any harm unless you suffer from epilepsy or migraines or BPD, I don't think you are finished for life, just wait for things to go back to normal and accept that you don't have alot of hair, some guys just shave the whole lot off if it's not a flattering hairline