2012年1月26日星期四

Should I get revenge for my catastrophic life?

Seven years ago start taking drug finasteride aka propecia for hair loss.

Forgot about side effects and had libido problems while on the drug without knowing why.

Last year move into flatshar to save money for a house - since this recession was supposed to be worst ever and buying was mad we were told.

Flat'mate' turns out to have aspergers - didn't mention this in the ad - and hardly talks, leaves lights out, puts his clothes in my wash, turns off the heating so I'm freezing...

Have panic attack at work mid last year, thought it was because of work harassment but instead was side effect of hormone drug propecia.

Then go back on drug and d!)Q shrinks, finally figure out the cause then stop taking drug.

A week later aspie boy has slashed my leather jacket the horrible bastard cos I looked at him funny.

He couldn't get into nightclubs so was jealous. Plus he was a middle class tw@t while I come from poor stock.



No living room just a small cold room with crap tv so just stay in my room after work, no TV, and masturb8 to internet porn all night, reducing testosterone levels more.

Tried to move out of flat but landlord tells me I have to sign new lease and stay or else move out next day, going back on his word.



Three weeks after quitting propecia my diq and ballz shrink and I'm impotent for life, lose 2 stone in muscle, good looks and job. Now unemployed indefinitely.

Will be on testosterone replacemnet therapy for life which might not even work.

Also should add my old flatmate before the aspie knew I was taking the pills and also Viagra - cos I didn't know why i had no libido- and told my friends behind my back I used viagra but not propecia.



Should I be mad at all these characters?



Is it my fault, theirs, a bit of both or what? Should I get revenge?



Where does blame lie:

1)me for buying drug

2)aspie for lying about the flat then trying and succeeding to make my life a misery and thus making susceptibilty to drug sides worse, rendering me imp0tent for life?

3)Landlord for not watching the flat, allowing it to be grotty and unclean,not vetting flatmates and crucially not letting me move out and being threatening in doing so

4)Previous flatmate who knew I took propecia and had sides but didn't warn me and told friends about viagra, plus left the flat leaving me to have to find a new one

5)Previous workmate who tried to make my life a misery but harassing me and making insinuations about my background, sexuality etc

6)the drug company Merck

7)the spivs who sold me it online without warningShould I get revenge for my catastrophic life?
Sorry, Trojan- but I really don't understand what you're getting out of this. SEE ANOTHER DOCTOR! As I said, I will keep repeating my answer as before, until you see sense and do something more positive. There is no other answer out there, can't you see that? Or do you just want one constant Pity Party for the rest of your life?



(PS, thanks for the 'Best Answer' vote, but I'd rather you actually took my advice, or someone else's if you prefer.)



So, you didn't get a satisfactory response to any of the threads below? I told you, in the third-to-last one, that you needed to stop with this obsession and go and see the doctor. This is achieving nothing whatsoever, and you clearly need some help with your psychological issues. What you are doing here on this site is not so different to the cold, impersonal masturbation to internet porn which you describe above. Please break this cycle, listen to someone for once, and make an appointment with your doctor. You can heal, but not in this way.



Who ruined my life then?

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Have a look at my awful life - my fault?

In Psychology - Asked by trojan - 3 answers - 2 hours ago - Open

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In Men's Health - Asked by trojan - 10 answers - 3 hours ago - Open

Horrible life whose fault is it?

In Men's Health - Asked by trojan - 9 answers - 10 hours ago - Open

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In Mental Health - Asked by trojan - 3 answers - 1 day ago - Open

Who is to blame for my catastrophic life?

In Psychology - Asked by trojan - 3 answers - 1 day ago - Open

Help who is to blame for my catastrophic life?

In Philosophy - Asked by trojan - 7 answers - 1 day ago - Open

Help my life is awful who is to blame?

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In Polls %26amp; Surveys - Asked by trojan - 6 answers - 1 day ago - Open

Life ruined who's to blame?

In Polls %26amp; Surveys - Asked by trojan - 6 answers - 2 days ago - Open

Horrible life who's to blame?

In Psychology - Asked by trojan - 4 answers - 2 days ago - Open

Problmes with sex, whose fault?

In Singles %26amp; Dating - Asked by trojan - 6 answers - 2 days ago - Open

Life gone to hell should I get revenge?

In Men's Health - Asked by trojan - 4 answers - 2 days ago - Open

Help life in hell whose fault is it?

In Religion %26amp; Spirituality - Asked by trojan - 8 answers - 2 days ago - Open

My life is hell, whose fault is it?

In Polls %26amp; Surveys - Asked by trojan - 1 answer - 2 days ago - Open

Please help terrible multiple health problems?

In Other - Health - Asked by trojan - 4 answers - 3 days ago - Open

Please answer,suicidal, whose fault?

In Mental Health - Asked by trojan - 4 answers - 3 days ago - Resolved

Wayne Rooney uses propecia for hairloss?

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In Men's Premiere Leagues (UK) - Asked by trojan - 2 answers - 3 days ago - Open

Life in hell who is to blame?

1

In Other - Society %26amp; Culture - Asked by trojan - 2 answers - 3 days ago - Open

My awful life - my fault?

In Singles %26amp; Dating - Asked by trojan - 2 answers - 3 days ago - Open

My life is hell should I get revenge or suicide?

In Mental Health - Asked by trojan - 6 answers - 3 days ago - Open

My life with no sex ever again, muscle loss etc - revenge?

In Men's Health - Asked by trojan - 4 answers - 4 days ago - In Voting

Life destroyed should I get my own back?

In Other - Family %26amp; Relationships - Asked by trojan - 2 answers - 4 days ago - In Voting

My life with no sex ever again, muscle loss etc - revenge?

In Singles %26amp; Dating - Asked by trojan - 1 answer - 4 days ago - In Voting

My life is a horrorshow, no sex ever again?

In Men's Health - Asked by trojan - 6 answers - 5 days ago - In Voting

Life a mess what to do now - get my own back?

In Marriage %26amp; Divorce - Asked by trojan - 1 answer - 5 days ago - In Voting

I have become impotent?

In Other - Family %26amp; Relationships - Asked by trojan - 7 answers - 9 months ago - Resolved

Who will love me if I'm impotent?

In Singles %26amp; Dating - Asked by trojan - 12 answers - 9 months ago - Resolved

Who will love me if I'm impotent?

In Singles %26amp; Dating - Asked by trojan - 9 answers - 9 months ago - ResolvedShould I get revenge for my catastrophic life?
Revenge is destructive. Forgiveness, however, brings healing.

Be still %26amp; quiet till you find peace within you...

Then you will know right from wrong and...just what to do..



Be strong %26amp; stay safe.
Take responsibility for your own mistakes, get help and move on.

No one forced you to take those drugs.



http://uk.answers.yahoo.com/question/ind
You have a very vivid,and slightly disturbing imagination.
You've obviously not taken Jasmines advice yet - i would if i were you, she detailed it all extremely well for you. Good luck. xx
Yess

your question is very appealing and interesting.



i will pass it on to my friends for answers...

what else i can help u?
Omstarts, is that you??!!
You read what Faith is saying, revenge is not the answer, it is forgiveness,

you need to go to God and pray that your past can be healed. Until you shed your resentments from your inner being to 'Jesus Christ', he cannot

heal your attitude towards others: - Otherwise Faith is the antidote to reversing sin. Pursue your negative thoughts trusting in the temptations of this world system and you will free fall, loveless.



Jesus and the Father know you better than you know yourself, nevertheless

ask for forgiveness, be truly sorry for past sins, not only to forgive you, but you to those who have offended you. Recognise Jesus died for you on that Cross, That He rose from the Dead, and sits on the right hand of God.



You have a right to have that monumental chip on your shoulders, do as I ask, get rid of it, you will have the right to be at peace with yourself, and no

torment. Do not listen to the smart Alec's who would deceive you that they

have the answers, their way is to turn you to a Godless path.



You have a need of a Church, It's a hard one, you need one to feed your Spirit, with loving Christians, ask God to help you find one.



Hoping you make a good decision, only you can say yea or nay.



Pee - Wee.
Yup. You should take revenge on them all. Aspie first then other flatmate as they are most to blame.

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