I'm balding and don't know what to make of it.?

Being a gay man, it's a lot different for me than most and I'm not sure I can find the answer I'm looking for here, but I figured I'd give it a shot.





Recently, I've started losing my hair at a steady pace. At a safe distance, nobody could ever tell. But within a foot of me and under slightly-more-than-subtle lighting it's definitely visible.





I'm a gay man, and I do a lot of online dating. I'm not the type of guy to troll bars or be found dancing shirtless in gay clubs, so sometimes I feel online dating is the best way to go. From what I've seen, gay men place more value on physical attractiveness than most other people. Having gotten out of a relationship a month ago, and starting to date again SLOWLY, I've found a lot of rejection in the short time I've been looking and don't know what to do or make of it.





Yesterday I went on the first date I've been on since breaking up. I thought I saw him looking at my scalp when my head was turned (as I would look back at him, I would see his eyes lowering back to my eyes). Today, he txted me saying that he didn't feel a spark, though I thought we hit it off really well.





Anyway, I suppose I'm kind of just looking for opinions and input. I'm still in a lot of emotional pain, from so many different aspects of love, including the rejection by this guy, the general shallow rejection I face for not being a ';perfect twink,'; and my breakup just after Christmas. I put a lot of weight on love, and I tend to be the foolish hopeless romantic...





How should I feel about my hair loss? I honestly don't know if I could rock the all-shaven bald look. I love(d) my hair. And I'm only 25. Should I bother trying to save it? Should I not care? I honestly don't believe the whole ';don't worry about it, you'll find someone'; nonsense. I'm starting to believe that I truly may not find what I'm looking for in this life.





I have a prescription for Finasteride (Propecia) 1mg, but I haven't started taking it yet due to the prices, which I can deal with, and some of the potential side effects, which I really don't know if I could deal with. And there's always the possibility of using Rogaine, though that can cause you to shed hair and there's no guarantee that hair will grow back, ironically enough. Again, what do you all think? What would you do, if you were in my shoes? Or what would you do if you were in the shoes of someone whom someone like me was trying to go out with?I'm balding and don't know what to make of it.?
Ok, i am bald like vin diesel or bruce willis or the guy from transporter but i think i have less than him. I am not gay but I find gay people staring at me , or having that feeling that the guy is watching . So I can safely say there is nothing to have to do with your hair is more about self steem. I am 26 and I take finasteride and I use propecia and it works! If you start now it will certainly work even better. My dad is 62 and is working for him so I dont see why it shouldn't work for you. If you still feel self conscious about your looks, go to the gym and build a decent body. At least you feel you are doing something about your looks? I shaved my head too and is cool you just have to get used to it, but do both stuff, shave and take the pills. If you decide you dont like it you can always let it grow back. Do itI'm balding and don't know what to make of it.?
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Honestly I understand what your saying, as much as I'd love to say, don't worry the right man who doesnt care about tht stuff willl come around and physical shouldn't matter, we all know that the world isnt that beautiful. I would suggest just to improve your looks, work out even just to be healthy try the different hair products, when your 40 and married then hell yah haah let yourself go, but your so young now, that looks matter so much. Do everything you can! I'm an aspiring model, so I know the pressures of looks, so much pressure. Best thing is keep it up as weell as you, it could build your self confidencce as well, even if yyou dont find someone right now. I've faced plenty of rejection and it hurts so bad, the loneliness can eat you away and the neverending thoughts of you'll never find anybody blah blah blah, but know nothing is ever EVER as bad as it may seem and one way or another our not alone.


Also I'd try hair club for men!
Hey, I'm really sorry about the feeling you're getting out of this. I can tell it must be terrible and I will just give you my opinion. I'm a woman and I'm straight, and my opinion is based on whether my Bf (brother or friend) was going through the same thing alright. So, I would just simply advise the shaving! Why? Because I wouldn't want my beloved to take any pills which could have side effects or that will cost a fortune and in the end might not work in the first place. If this is the way it has to go with you then just get rid of it. It could really look good on you and you wouldn't have to worry anymore. Unless you don't like the shaving idea, then just go ahead and try the prescription I guess, but I feel it will just be a hassle.


I really hope it all turns out well for you!