My hair loss insecurity is ruining my relationship?

Okay so I'm 21 and im losing my hair. Ive been losing it since maybe 16 years old.





I currently have a girl friend and im extremely insecure about my hair. weve been together for about a year and I dont think she knows im losing my hair yet..I can style it so that I cover up the bald spots. and we hang out inside so it doesnt really get messed up. Ill hang out with her at night or something so she wont see the sun shine through my scalp etc..im very careful about it. But now the summer is coming up and were alot more serious then we were before and she wants to spend more time with me like going to the beach when it gets warm or going places which means itll be windy and that will ruin my hair.





Im so afraid of her finding out that i keep trying to break up with her. I borke up with her last night but shes not like letting me. I dont have a good reason to do it. Like i cant say ';im going bald'; cause thats really hard for me. And i think she can do so much better. for instance her ex boyfriend was a very good looking guy with a full head of hair and i think if she finds out that im losing my hair, shell go back to him anyway.





I dont know what to do. I dont want to be put in that situation where I have to tell her. I mean shes only 18 and she wont understand. Her friends have these hot boy friends and I dont want her to be the one with the bald boy friend.My hair loss insecurity is ruining my relationship?
I got married at 18 and my husband was 27. He had already lost a lot of hair. It did not matter to me because I loved him, not his hair. Once my husband shaved his head. He looked really hot that way and you could not tell where his hairline was. Have you ever thought about shaving your head. Lots of guys, even actors shave and have the totally bald look.


You guys have been together a long time. She is not going to care. I am sure she probably has things about herself that she is insecure about. Most people have something they wish they could change. Just tell her and enjoy your summer.