What do i do about these girls? HELP!?

so im 16 and i am overweight


therefore i have limited friends


especially because all my other friends have a different lunch at school then i do


well i became good friends with a group (no that good either but okay for me to always have someone by my side)


let me mention that the people i hang out with are indian, guyanese, vietnamese, pakistani, chinese


and im german/indian


theres only one guy where we hang out and hes from pakistan


theres this new girl that came to my school about a month ago and another friend of mine introduced her to everyone and now she seems to take over everyone except me


everyone loves her (sehs guyanese as well) cause appearntly shes preety but i dont think so


my friends do stuff together after school at each otehrs homes but i was never invited so far but this girl got invited to soo many peoples homes...


what do i do noww? it seems like as if they dont care for me anymore... theres noone else i can hang out with at lunch break so im stuck with them


i like them all but on friday because it was holidays right after they all decided to skip period 3 (we all have lunch break period 4) and they all went to tim hortons (fast food place), but the sad thing is that they did not inform me that they were going so during lunch break period 4 i couldnt find them so i went to the library but after lucch i was going to my class and i see all of them... i walk up to them and say hi to them but noone responded btu they all ignored me and that was very rude from them adn when i started to talk to them they all started to leave... after this other girl from the group was tlking to me cause shes in my class and we were doing a projject together...


but what do i do noww? i have that feelin that that bitc h shittalked about me


btww you will never find me swear in real life... i only swear on the internet IF necessary


i think its cause maybe im too annoying? or many cause i act too mature... cuase i am different then everybody else adn im known to be a good girl while the rest is not so...


i dont fight with anyone, i dont swear, i always finish my work a week ahead before its due, i never forget to do my homework, i do well in school, i like challenges, i am not very normal (i dont laugh at russel peter cause i dont think hes funnny ),i help everyone... so what could be the problem? is me being obese a problem for them? i have consulted a weight loss doctor (dietists or something)


and my diet will start soon. what do i do now? pPLEASE HELP ME GUYS!


17 hours ago - 3 days left to answer.


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and i dont like shopping, i dont like to get a hair cut, i dont like to dress up too well... like i can get dressed in like a minute and leave...(i dont worry about makeup,jewlery an stuf flike that)


17 hours ago





i know that they are not my real friends and thats why i dont know what to do.. we just hang out together and thats itWhat do i do about these girls? HELP!?
oh my gosh i was in the same boat as you but i was new to the school and it was basically really hard to fit in for me since im such a white girl (lol) n no im not fat im skiinny about average weight and i hung out w/ this group of 'Popular' girls which i had no idea they were just extremely intimiading and i was so afraid to open my mouth and say anything, so they talked crap behind my back and i didnt know till i had already left them and started hanging out w/ ppl i just started talking too (My real friends) and i never gave either of them a second look and still dont till this day.


But do you know what i did? I said i had enough feeling like im **** and a peice of dirt that was lower than them and i quit talking to them, i cut off all contact w/ them. I went solo (Independent) thats when i talked to these two girls that i got along w/ and in time we became bffs and some ppl came and hang out with us and not before long, i had a group of my own. Im not saying quit being there friends but somtimes its best to just be independent and you will find your right friends eventually. Now, i have my close friends i have a hot boyfriend and other friends that are just cool.





Dont let them do that too you let them know you can do better. Start talking to ppl, get in clubs and stuff that is the best advise i can give u. Good luck !





PS it has NOTHING to do with ur weight :))What do i do about these girls? HELP!?
Sorry 4 all that mistreatment but i believe that if they don't like u the way you are they will never like u 4 sure. Get on the diet because u want 2 be healthy bt not because u want them to like them am sure u'll find a real friend
well girly, tyhere's a very simple answer to this. get a friend! a real friend. i don't see why you make sucha a fuss about your looks or your weight, it has nothing to do with who you are. find someone you can relate to and can talk to freely so you donj't have to go to the internet when you need advice.





as far as the ';new girl'; is concerned, i'm pretty sure she didn't say anything bad about you. you're just being a little paranoid because you're jelaouse, hurt and alone. first of, you need to get some self confidence in your systyem that isn't based on what you ';don't do';. think about what you can do, things yu're good at. do you have a great heart? are you smart? are you honest? convince yourself with all your strenght of how awesome you are. you can't expect other to like you if you don't like yourself.


and then, about your style. you sound very sloppy, some people may see that as a proof that you just don't care, about anything. i'm telling you to become a barbie girl, but make yourself presentable. girls don't use makeup and cute clothes to win over guys. mostly it's just to feel good about yourself.


talk to your friends, don't just use them as a decoy to aviod looking/feeling lonely. talk to them, tell them about you. open up. if you do, they'll most likely respond well and you'll become actual friends. which is a lot healthier than ';just hanging';.





basically, what i'm asking you is that you have a different look on things. your life, even you're convinced it's a dead end, it's not. there's always a way you can get things your way. it's not always easy and it's not always great. but as long as you don't lower your head everything is going to be fine. hunny, you're worth more than how many friends you have.
Seriously? grow up





go on a diet fat *****
**** sucks bro, that's what women do; enjoy having no friends...